We should always remember that the main cause of most inharmonious human relationships is the tendency to impose our values on others. We want them to live by waht we have decided is right, fair, good, bad etc. If they do not toe our line of thought, we become angry. We must realise that there is nothing we can do to change other people's value, concepts or beliefs if their awareness is not re3ady to accept the change. We are resisting their reality and want to see things not as they are but as we would like them to be. Tbhis is the point at which we start value judging.
We should also realize that nothing can destroy a relationship or break off communications faster than value-judging (imposing our values) on others.
We should aim at maintaining good human relationship always.